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Friday, August 17, 2012

so called christians

I watched a repeat episode of wife swap.
one wife an athiest the other a christian it was a recipe for disaster ,

THe christian mom and dad, suffocated their children by prayers not allowing them to go to school
or hang out with friends, while the athiest couple exact opposite, kids in school, in a band, out with friends.

The christian mom would not conform to the rules while the athiest mom, went to church even
though she was uncomfortable, read the bible, said grace etc, the christian mom would not go
trick or treating, tried FORCING the family to pray etc. Well to make a long story short,,,i love the athiest mom!!! She gave it all a chance while this closed minded CHRISTIAN woman did not shoGw
that only GOD can judge and judged these people!!! i wanted to puke!

I now have 4 teenagers and 2 little ones. i have NEVER stopped my kids from doing anything that cant harm them. Kids NEED to fail to learn how to pick themselves up and go on. this mother was not allowing her kids to do anything!
I will say that letting my kids breathe, go out with friends, play sports, get involved in school, i have very well rounded kids who i can be proud of. As a christian, watching that episode im embarassed that now people convieve all christians to be judgemental! In the end the athiest children who were in a band opended thier minds and wrote a song about GOD! while the so called christian mother still judged them by saying rock music is of the devil.

What some people have done to thier kids : (

Monday, August 13, 2012

freaking idiot!

This was off an open adoption site, what a freaking joke this woman is, she is the administrator of the site, this poor woman asked a question  .......

Hi, we are adoptive parents planning to adopt a baby girl due next month (9/20). the bmom lives in missouri and has health insurance under her mom’s coverage. we live in ca. By Missouri law, the child of the dependent does not get automatic coverage, so we would have to foot the bill for our baby;s birth and hospital stay. Because we are covered under Kaiser Permanente, and bmom is not giving birth at a KP facility, our insurance will not cover the baby’s expenses. Does anyone have any suggestions or knowledge about this type of situation? We are happy to cover for a well-baby’s normal stay, but if there are any complications, it can be tens or thousands of dollars. Any prior knowledge or suggestions would be greatly appreciated

Hi poster, I think this is a question for your lawyer. But I did want to caution that unless you have already adopted a child, you are NOT adoptive parents. You are hopeful parents or pre-adoptive parents. Also the pregnant mom is NOT a birth mother; she is an expectant mother. She may be planning to place the child and she may go through with it but until those papers are signed, she is that baby’s mother and you are not adoptive parents.
These kinds of semantics are important both because language can be coercive (by calling a woman a birth mom before she’s given birth it’s a way of erasing her valid status as mother) and because it can set hopeful adoptive parents up for a level of entitlement that can harm the future relationship if the adoption goes through.

The woman IS a birthmother!!! she has every intetion on placing her child so she is a perspective birth mother!!!!!!!!! so as this stupid person says,,,shes  "hopeful birthmother" th